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Archive for May, 2007

When loyalty turns into codependency

Posted by Cecile on May 28th, 2007

I stare at my computer screen. It’s a good day at the office. I’m happily minding my own business. Then all of a sudden the emails start popping up on my screen. Co-workers wanting things of me. A colleague drops by and reminds me again of the fact that he can’t imagine what I’m supposed […]

Musings on marriage

Posted by Cecile on May 21st, 2007

Attending a wedding. It always exhilarates the mind. Every non-married person will know what I mean. And every married one will remember feeling the same one day. Once you sit in that bench, bored by the slow proceeding rituals you start thinking. What do I want when I get married? What would I do differently?
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Brought up to bring one down?

Posted by Cecile on May 14th, 2007

Though not very often, I have these moments. Little moments in which my mind suddenly goes back two decades to show me a memory of my parents fighting.
After more than twenty-five years of marriage they have been happily married for ages now. Still together. But despite they’re still together and nothing bad ever happened, just […]

What men need to eat are women

Posted by Cecile on May 7th, 2007

We all know at least one of those guys. Please feel free to tick the box that applies.
- A man who cheats on his girlfriend.
- A boy who sleeps with a different woman every week.
- A guy who just came out of a long term relationship and has a new girlfriend within weeks.
- A bloke […]