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Archive for June, 2007

Be ready to surf the change

Posted by Cecile on June 25th, 2007

I was going to write about change last week, but, ironically, that got brutally altered due to an intervention by Matt (see my previous column). Today I can write about change even more.
I wish I could say my greatest fear is fear itself. But I’m not so wise as Franklin D. Roosevelt or Harry Potter. […]

Murdered by ghosts from the past

Posted by Cecile on June 18th, 2007

Is it acceptable to break up with somebody because of their past love and sex life? Or would that be totally wrong and pathetic?
My first rational response is: of course that’s ridiculous. The past is the past and if your lover has actually closed off the past (I mean, not secretly longing back for an […]

Meet the parents

Posted by Cecile on June 11th, 2007

It’s one of those special moments. The first time you meet the parents.
Matt and I did this in a what I believe to be a both wonderful and memorable way. We got into the car on a Saturday and drove to some of the places that had to do with my upbringing. The places I […]

So many questions

Posted by Cecile on June 4th, 2007

Around this time of the year my life always stops and takes a moment to remember. It skips a beat before it resumes it’s usual pace. This year it’s already four years ago.
Four years ago one of my best friends, Orelinde, made a decision. Well, in fact, she’d made the decision quite a while earlier. […]